The Serious Talk: When You Want To Ask Him Where Your Relationship Is Going... and What To Do If You Already Had The Talk, and He Backed Away
Should you have that "serious talk" with him - the one where you want to ask him where your relationship is headed?
Or the one where you want to ask him about being exclusive?
Maybe you need to know because...
You don't want to waste months or years on him before you know if he will get serious about you.
Maybe you need to know if he's willing to be exclusive - if he's going to promise you that there won't be anyone else in his life from here on.
Or maybe you need to know soon if he wants marriage and a family.
But there is one huge problem.
Bringing up "the talk" can completely change the tone of your relationship.
One minute, everything is happy and carefree, in his eyes.
And the next minute, he sees that the girl who was so much fun is now completely different.
Things Were Never The Same (True Story)
Amy and Jacob met at a softball game. They started talking and found themselves laughing over the silliest things together.
It was one of those relationships that seems to go from "zero" to "this is it" within a week!
They were both on Cloud Nine.
And then one thing changed everything...
Amy's friends urged her to have a "serious talk" with him.
A talk about commitment. About the future. To see what his intentions are.
And even though Jacob was falling in love faster than ever in his life...
This put the brakes on.
Not because he wasn't falling for Amy.
Not because he wasn't already thinking about their future together.
Their relationship continued, but things were never the same again.
That's because Amy changed the tone of the relationship completely.
That's one of the problems with the Serious Talk. People bring up the Serious Talk in the worst way.
And the truth is, they don't need to bring it up at all.
But what can you do when you need to know where things stand?
Of course, you don't want to do this in a way that creates distance, or worse, causes him to completely back away from you!
As a relationship expert (I'm Mimi Tanner, author of The Reverse Ultimatum and many other books), I have talked to literally thousands of women who have had this one moment cause more pain and sadness than anything else.
This makes me sad too, because it's so easy to avoid this problem.
I can help you know exactly what to do and what not to do... and I can give you the easy steps you can follow so that your love life won't be like what happened to Amy, and what happens to countless others.
If you really want to keep this one thing from messing up your love life, I can save you from years of heartache.
The good news is that "the Serious Talk" can even be HIS idea.
Meanwhile, you can just relax and enjoy the relationship.
He will be the one chasing you and asking YOU for a commitment.
And that's exactly how it should be.
Believe me, if it's his idea, you will be far more at your best during that serious talk.
You'll feel great that he's insisting on being a bigger part of your busy life.
A Peek At the Serious Talk
• Can a Serious Talk Ever Be Welcomed by a Man?
• But I Need To Know Where Things Stand!
• Case History - The Timing Was Wrong, and He Backed Off
• But I Don't Want to Waste Time!
• But the Serious Talk is a Matter of Honesty!
• But If I Never Have a Serious Talk With Him, He May Never Commit!
• How To Recover From the Serious Talk If He Backed Away
• What You Will and Won't Say
• How To Handle What Comes Next
• What To Do If Things Stagnate Again Later
And Much More... Information that can make all the difference in keeping your relationship.
"I Wish I'd Had This Information Sooner"
Are you willing to get clarity on this crucial subject that can make or break your relationship?
Most people just "go with the flow" and operate out of emotion. Then they're caught off guard when they're in the middle of a relationship crisis, and they say and do things that make matters worse.
Because, let's face it, a person who is not willing to invest the cost of a cheap restaurant dinner to get the knowledge she needs to keep the man she loves... may not really be serious about her love life.
The sad part is when I get emails from women who tell me, "I wish I'd had this information last month!"
After you read this brief guide, you will know how to handle the situation that demands "the talk."
And you'll know what to do if you have already tried "the Serious Talk" and it pushed away a man you love.
In life, the people who take action are the people who get results.
Everyone else sits around and wonders why those people succeed in life, and the answer is: successful people care enough to find answers.
So don't put off having the information you're going to need very, very soon!
My Promise To You
I guarantee that when you try out these methods as described, you'll experience SUCCESS in your love life. You'll begin to see the difference right away.
This is your love life we're talking about, and precious few things are more important than this!
I'm passionate about the subject of what it takes to make men fall in love with you. This program must actually work for you, either now of in the future when you need it.
Following the tips in this guide WILL work with the men in your life - and you will feel "armed and ready" to handle these sometimes sensitive situations.
You'll know what to do like never before - and these principles will become second nature to you.
You'll discover when and why "less is more" when it comes to your love life.
All I ask of you is that you truly sit down and take the time to explore this guide carefully and give it your full concentration.
Try this out for yourself! You have a full 60 days to try this out, and if you are not completely satisfied, then you can email me and ask for a refund.
Many women email me and tell me that they read my programs again and again when they need the strength; when they need a refresher course, and when they need ideas on what to do and what not to do during those all-important moments!
Give your man a chance to see how unique YOU are, so he can reach out and cherish you the way you deserve.
Every man deeply wants to be with the woman who inspires that in him.
I'm excited to be part of your love life journey!
A Man's Point of View